It is incredibly refreshing when a guy is open and honest about his feelings and lets you know where you stand. It’s really… something.
When you don’t have to guess how someone feels, when you can just know where you stand, I cannot even begin to describe how nice that feeling is. Even if it’s not the news you want, it’s just nice when someone is open and honest with you.
agreed 1000%
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But the thing is, we all, go into a, relationship, expecting, something, and, because we headed into these relationships with that, expectation, we are, destined to get disappointed, because, we already have a, preset, of what our ideals of love, of, romance are, and, everything simply, just, does, NOT, and CAN’T, live up to these, ideals that we have.
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Speaking from 14 years of marriage this month and 20 years overall with the same man, I can tell you that you can have a certain expectation but often things you do not expect can take you by surprise and be just as delightful.
My husband proposed while I was sick in bed feeling like I was dying from the flu. At the time I was so disappointed because I wanted the whole public “big scene” proposal (I watch way too many movies and read too many books). But now with some time and perspective that was probably one of the most romantic things he’s ever done. He proposed when I was at my absolute worst. He wanted me when any other sane person would have thrown some Lysol in the the room and walked away. A partner who can love you at your worst is one worth keeping.
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C'est La Vee 
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